Where did anyone mention love? I think you've just presented us with a false dilemma.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_dilemma

I was accentuating the difference between foster care and growing up with parents. Foster care provides for little to no genuine love.

But foster care wasn't what dzorz was arguing for.

Decreasing the supply of parents willing to adopt increases the number of children who will never have parents. It's common sense.