> The only reason men want steady jobs is to raise families.

You really think that.

It didn't occur to you that a man would want a steady job because: - he loves it?

- he enjoys the freedom that it provides to participate in hobbies

- he loves the time he spends with his coworkers

- each day brings something new and exciting? ...

I have a steady job and each of these things is one thing I love about it.